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- AnonymousBumble · 3dRed flag · love-bombed me
first date he said he’d never clicked with anyone like this. by date 2 he was talking about a trip together. stopped answering after date 4. whiplash
- AnonymousHinge · 1wGreen flag · showed up for me
got there early, already had a table, and gave me his charger when i said my phone was dying lol. easiest first date ive had in a while
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