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- “his profile says 6’1. i was taller than him in flats”Red flag · misled me
- “got there early and gave me his charger when my phone was dying lol”Green flag · showed up for me
- “cancelled the day of. twice. both times like an hour before”Red flag · cancelled on me
- “dog in every pic so idk if its his or hes borrowing one lol”Anyone know him?
- “talking about a trip together by date 2. stopped answering after date 4”Red flag · love-bombed me
- “said he’d text when he got home and he actually did”Green flag · kept his word
- “snapped his fingers at our server. like actually snapped”Red flag · rude on our date
- “asked before hugging me goodbye and texted to make sure i got home ok”Green flag · respectful with me
- “i text him im here and… nothing. been 9 days”Red flag · ghosted me
- “told me upfront he isnt looking for anything serious. appreciated it tbh”Green flag · honest with me
be honest. which one happened to you?
he said “we should do this again soon.” that was in august the fade6’1 on his profile. we were eye level and i was in flats the height mathtexted him that i was there. delivered, read, nothing. that was 2 weeks ago the ghostsent his profile to the group chat. got two “no idea”s and a gif the group chathe was planning a weekend trip for us on date 2. i didnt know his last name yet lol the speedrunlooked him up first, only good stuff. he was on time and actually asked me questions back. shocked tbh the plot twist
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